N.M. Stat. § 61-32-19
Cremation; requirements; right to authorize cremation;
disposition of cremains.
A. No cremation shall be performed until all necessary documentation is obtained
authorizing the cremation.
B. An adult person may authorize the person's own cremation and the lawful
disposition of the person's cremains by:
(1)
stating the person's desire to be cremated in a written statement that is
signed by the person and notarized or witnessed by two other persons; or
(2)
including an express statement in the person's will indicating that the
testator desired that the testator's remains be cremated upon the testator's death.
C. A personal representative acting pursuant to the Uniform Probate Code or an
establishment or crematory shall comply with a statement made in accordance with the
provisions of this section. A statement that conforms to the provisions of this section
authorizes a personal representative, establishment or crematory to cremate a
decedent's remains, and the permission of next of kin or any other person shall not be
required for such authorization. Statements dated prior to June 18, 1993 shall be given
effect if they meet this section's requirements.
D. A personal representative, establishment or crematory acting in reliance upon a
document executed pursuant to the provisions of this section, who has no actual notice
of revocation or contrary indication, is presumed to be acting in good faith.
E. No establishment, crematory or employee of an establishment or crematory or
other person that relies in good faith on a statement written pursuant to this section shall
be subject to liability for cremating the remains in accordance with the provisions of this
section. The written authorization is a complete defense to a cause of action by a
person against any other person acting in accordance with that authorization.
F. Except as provided in Subsection G of this section, if a decedent has left no
written instructions regarding the disposition of the decedent's remains, the following
persons in the order listed shall determine the means of disposition, not to be limited to
cremation, of the remains of the decedent:
(1)
the surviving spouse;
(2)
a majority of the surviving adult children of the decedent;
(3)
the surviving parents of the decedent;
(4)
a majority of the surviving siblings of the decedent;
(5)
an adult person who has exhibited special care and concern for the
decedent, who is aware of the decedent's views and desires regarding the disposition of
the decendent's body and who is willing and able to make a decision about the
disposition of the decedent's body; or
(6)
the adult person of the next degree of kinship in the order named by New
Mexico law to inherit the estate of the decedent.
G. If a decedent left no written instructions regarding the disposition of the
decedent's remains, died while serving in any branch of the United States armed forces,
the United States reserve forces or the national guard and completed a United States
department of defense record of emergency data form or its successor form, the person
authorized by the decedent to determine the means of disposition on a United States
department of defense record of emergency data form shall determine the means of
disposition, not to be limited to cremation.
H. A licensed establishment or crematory shall keep an accurate record of all
cremations performed and the place of disposition of the cremains for a period of not
less than seven years.
I. Cremains may be disposed of by any licensed establishment, crematory
authority, cemetery or person having the right to control the disposition of the cremains,
or that person's agent, in a lawful manner.
J. Legal forms for cremation authorization shall provide that persons giving the
authorization will hold harmless an establishment from any liability for disposing of
unclaimed cremains in a lawful manner after a period of one year following the return of
the cremains to the establishment.