Okla. Stat. tit. 43, § 43-150.4
Deployment orders - Copy to nondeploying parent
A. A deploying parent shall provide a copy of the deployment
orders to the other parent within ten (10) days of receipt. When
the deployment date is less than ten (10) days after receipt of the
orders, a copy shall immediately be provided to the other parent.
B. If a valid court order requires that the address or contact
information of the nondeploying parent be kept confidential, the
notification shall be made to the court only. The court shall
notify the nondeploying parent, or counsel for the nondeploying
parent, if the deploying parent is prohibited from directly
contacting the nondeploying parent.